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"Can't My Family Be Real Too?" Deconstructing the Familial Mystique Through History and Narratives

Elliott, Victoria
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Honors papers, Anthropology and Sociology, Department of, Student research
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This project explores how normative understandings based on the nuclear family ideology interact with individual's constructions of family. In particular, it seeks to challenge the established illusion of the nuclear family as ideal by re-conceptualizing it as a familial mystique. Deconstruction of this mystique begins with an examination of history, as it was and as it is falsely remembered. Narrative accounts that individuals give continues this deconstruction, as their experiences in dealing with the mystique and strategies of handling it are revealed. Guided by feminist and post-modernist approaches, this in-depth analysis is based on a qualitative study comprising interviews with individuals from 6 different family forms. The results show that families are constructed predominately in terms of deficits, with the idealized nuclear family serving as a goal that is ultimately unattainable. Families describe their strategies of dealing with this in terms of performance, compensation, or pride. Consideration of this guides one to the understanding of difference not as a fact but rather as a process that a patriarchal and heteronormative culture creates and uses to constitute itself.
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